The name Wesley derives from Anglo-Norman origins. It means a field to the west (wes = west / lea = field). The name’s popularity increased in the 18th century in honor of Methodist founder, John Wesley. In my family, that name carries great significance. This name given to my paternal great-grandfather and passed down three generations.
Thomas Wesley “Pa Wes” Curry was born in Green Turtle Cay, Abaco on February 28, 1865 to William and Emmaline Curry. (siblings)
He married Lila Carleton, who was the daughter of Romelda Lowe.
Their union produced five surviving children: Eudora Isabel, Thomas Herman, Mary Edith, Emma Louise and my grandmother Bessie Caroline.
My dad John Wesley Lowe recalled that Pa Wes lived on the southern part of the island.
In 1924 and at the age of 21, Bessie Caroline married the love of her life, Howard Lowe. The following year a son was born, John Wesley Lowe. Howard’s life on earth would come to an abrupt end two years later leaving a young widow and her toddler. Pa Wes thought it best to move in with his youngest daughter and thus become a father figure for Dad. He gave his house and land to one of his granddaughters, Tessie Roberts Key. Tessie’s daughter recalls Pa Wes, walking stick in one hand and a lantern in the other, taking strolls just before sunset to visit his granddaughter. She also recalls a huge almond tree in that yard that supported a rope swing, which Pa Wes crafted for Tessie’s children. Dad remembers Pa Wes on occasion smoking a pipe. Miss Bessie’s shop sold tobacco in plugs, and he would buy a portion of a plug, worth about three cents.
Pa Wes displayed excellent farmer skills. As a young lad, I sailed with him to his farmland on the Abaco mainland. He proudly showed me bunches of bananas and fields of pineapples. The lovely odor of ripe pineapples . He also farmed on Crab Cay situated to the north of Green Turtle Cay. He grew melons, cassava, beans and potatoes there.
He told me of an interesting story about his change in plans from fishing to farming. He had fished many years to support his family, but on a particular frustrating fishing day, he decided to end his fishing career. He gathered all of his equipment, a tin can of lines, hooks and sinkers, and tossed it overboard and decided to go into farming.
Journals of John W. Lowe
According to Dad, Pa Wes farmed 20 acres on the Abaco Mainland left by deceased son-in-law, Howard to grow bananas and pineapples. Pa Wes used a 12’ sailboat to navigate the hour trip, depending on the wind, to Crab Cay as well as to the Abaco Mainland. Leaving early in the morning, he set sail from Green Turtle Cay to farm all day. To provide relief from the scorching sun as well as inclement weather, he constructed a simple ten by twelve foot shack on the Abaco Mainland farm from materials that he hauled over from Green Turtle Cay.
Around 1940, Pa Wes became very ill. Grandma Bessie sold her house in Green Turtle Cay and moved to Nassau to seek medical treatment for her father. My Dad recalls…
At the age of fifteen, my grandfather, Wesley, became very ill. A decision was made to take him to stay with his daughter, Emmie in Nassau, New Providence. My mother and I went along on the mail boat.
Journals of John W. Lowe
Pa Wes died soon afterwards and was buried in the cemetery of the Church of God on Fowler Street. The exact date of death still remains a mystery as well as details on his wife, Lila Carleton. Dad had no recollection of her and could only recall her first name. Pa Wes’ legacy lives on…both me and my eldest son share the middle name, Wesley.